sunday teached life............

• A friend confused with life......
• meeting with parents of a prospect life partner........
• its raining in delhi ( check pics on my facebook profile ).........
• one of our relative expired in Dubai........
• a friend of mine had a complete break-off with her boyfriend....... ( amazed !!- she is happy )
• a friend wants to shift to Gurgaon................... ( for better career prospects )

Well this sunday teached me life.........let me tell u how......

First, I met a friend from my last company, a very good friend now, she is married but is very confused in life........ teached me that there could be a phase in life post marraige where one gets stuck, confused...so one has to ready for that. It was all written on her face, I could easily read that. All fun had evaporated, but m sure that its just a phase and things will change soon for her.
This too shall pass........
Second, its self explantory.........sometimes you have to stop pretending. There will be various encounters in life where you would have to show your real self, which let me tell u is a damn difficult job. We all need to learn that. Its not our fault that we are like that but the world around us has teached us to pretend, pretend and pretend. Sometimes you have to prentend in front of a client that you understand all their business startegies and say "you are right". Sometimes you pretend that you understand that joke in english movie when you are trying to impress her on first date. And we have learnt to be that way. Where is real you ? ??? ??

Third, expect unexpected. Rains in winters to make cold worse. Expect unexpected which will make it worse.
Fourth, a relative of us expired in Dubai, cause was heart fail. He was around 55 . Health is very important part of your life, take care of urself. Eat less, workout, dont smoke..........these words should be on ur tips. Dont let work overtake your health. Well the only thing I remember about my relative is that he gifted me two packets of toffees when he returned from Dubai . He was well known name in our family, Dubai return- wearing gold watch, few Gold rings and a heavy gold chain. He was a hardworker with sense of enterprenuership. His kids are owning and running 3 shops in Dubai.
Fifth, why is she happy, m still thinking. Is she pretending. In bollywood words - Ek bhoj tha, dil se hat gaya......probably. Sometimes you have to move on in life leaving good things behind, those memories, in search of new & better things. One will fill-up this phase with things that they missed all this while. I know its a great move for her only if she doesnt looks back. I have always learnt that if you have to choose a thing from two.............always select a new one. This is because, you can mould a new thing according to yourself. You cant change the shape of iron which is already moulded.You can but u have to break it first, which will hurt. One has to leave things behind and keep on moving, face bad, face good, face new, face old.........Keep facing, expecting that u will get what you want. One day you will get it........
Sixth, career again is very important. But what is more important is how you see urself in future. Doing good in present would not do any good to you but rather how you look to ur future would . He is looking at future .

This sunday taught me alot. I never thot" that I could think so deeply. Today i did.
I dunt know how many of these learnings you guys can relate with, but m sure some of them would definitely make sense for you.......